Category Archives: Counselling

Inside Culture Club

Dom: ‘Post brain injury life is about staying busy and in touch with the world. To that end one of the things I go to is a group set up by my counsellor Cathy that we tentatively call ‘Culture Club’. No, we don’t sit around and discuss Boy George! Once every two months a group of about 6 brain injury survivors plus Cathy sit in a pub in Teddington and discuss anything we’ve been up to. We’re all at different post brain-injury stages; we’re all different ages and very different people. Lotte is the cinema expert; I tell bad jokes and tell Martin I find modern art questionable. He sighs, I’m sure they all do. Cathy tries to stop me swearing. More sighs. The point is it is something to do rather than just sitting at home which seems to be the all too often fate of the brain injured. We have one thing in common, it’s not much, but it’s enough.’

Angela: ‘Everyone is friendly. I look forward to it a lot. I like the variety of topics. I find it funny and Dom makes me laugh. If I could sum up Culture Club in one word, I would use the word “stimulating”. I find the group as a whole, stimulating. I find it hard to communicate which can be frustrating. It helps when Cathy sits next to me as I feel as if I have a friend. I would recommend the group to other people.’

Toby Art 2016Toby: ‘A group for people with speech issues. Although it is called the culture club, it is basically a group for people to get together and chat. Topics could be theatre, comedy, film, TV…basically anything that is NOT sport or politics!
It is a fun and supportive group of people where you will not feel judged. I’m using it to focus on turn taking and concentrating on anything cultural that I might encounter. There is also a marvellous selection of biscuits made available! I do my artwork at:   www.workshop305.com

Martin: ‘Culture Club is a group. I didn’t want to be part of it. I didn’t want to have a stroke – but I did. We all have reservations and might be cautious about coming to a group like this. But once you are there, it’s friendly, inclusive and accepting. We are all different but have things in common. You can say and share as much or as little as you like. You should dare to join us and take that leap.’

Culture Club takes place every other month on a Tuesday morning. Check out the website for more information: www.intandem.co.uk/pdf/groups/cc2016_2.pdf or contact Cathy: cathy@intandem.co.uk .

 

Collaboration

“Coming together is a beginning, staying together is progress, and working together is success” Henry Ford

2014 marks intandem‘s 10-year anniversary. Throughout this time, collaboration has been at the heart of all our work – both with each other and with others. 2013 was a year of experiments and we worked hard to establish even more connections and links within and outside our professional groups, using a range of approaches. As a result our networks and those we have reached and influenced have increased considerably. Here are some highlights from 2013 and some aspirations for 2014…

Twitter: @_intandem
One of our new ventures in 2013 was setting up a twitter account. We have written over 100 tweets and now have over 70 followers – including clients, therapists, counsellors, researchers, organisations, charities, students, and projects. We are using twitter to let people know what we are up to as well as signposting other events and ideas. Twitter offers a different way of interacting with individuals and groups and one that we hope we are getting better at with practice. We are starting to build a community of collaborators, which we consider a positive way forward.

Blog: www.intandem.co.uk/blog
2013 also saw the start of our monthly blog. Together with a range of guest bloggers, we have been able to use this as a regular platform to share ideas, reflections and insights as well as to signpost projects. Topics have included: different group experiences, vulnerability, acceptance, community & celebration, supervision and last, but not least, the launch of Stammering Therapy from the Inside: New Perspectives on Working with Young People and Adults. We have had a very positive response to each blog post and look forward to welcoming a range of new collaborators throughout 2014. Watch this space!

Culture Club
Another new intandem project for 2013 involved setting up a group opportunity for people with experience of stroke, tumour, head injury or brain surgery who are interested in music, film, theatre, comedy and art (Read here for more information). This open group of men and women meet every two months in the comfort of a local hotel café. Feedback to date has been resoundingly positive with a shared enjoyment of events, new ideas, humour and support. We plan to continue with this group throughout 2014 – check out the dates on our website here.

Relationship Group
Working with young people with experience of brain injury, who want to develop new friendships and relationships, has brought intandem to experimenting with a new group. We are looking forward to collaborating with Flame Introductions, a personal introduction agency who specialise in supporting people with mild disabilities and who you may have seen on the TV programme The Undateables. Our first joint meeting will be in March. Do get in touch if you are interested, as we are keen to open this group up to others.

Stammering Open Space
This open group has gone from strength to strength over the course of 2013 and now has a well-established core membership. (Read here for more information). Again feedback has been highly positive with a shared appreciation of the support and challenge, lively debate and exchange of ideas that the group offers. 2014 dates can be found here.

Courses
In our continued attempt to raise the profile of supervision within the profession we ran regular RCSLT registered Supervision 1 & 2 courses in England and Wales throughout the year. 2013 also saw us collaborating with UCL to offer a bespoke supervision course for new graduates. We recognise the unique needs of those entering the profession in the current climate. Through the course, we aimed to equip the students with the knowledge and skills to reach out for good support and supervision throughout their careers. Our shared commitment to offering support and training to therapists, coaches and other healthcare professionals interested in developing their counselling skills, resulted in our running a number of training days across the year, both independently and in collaboration with the Personal Construct Psychology Association and City Lit. intandem was also involved in organising a day of talks at City Lit to mark the publication of ‘Stammering Therapy from the Inside’, as well as co-ordinating a local book launch. Our 2014 programme of courses can be found here. Do check out what is new and let us know if you are interested in taking part.

We have enjoyed a year of experimentation and collaboration. Thanks to everyone we have worked with and met along the way! Here’s to 2014 – as we reach out to new possibilities ahead.

Cathy & Sam
January 2014