Will:
“I
felt quite uncomfortable talking about my difficulties, because
I didn't want to accept what has happened and imagined that
it would all be forgotten in a year or two. Sam helped me exept
my hidden 'disabilities' and mentally let me move on. She also
invited my parents, brother and friends to meet up and discuss
mine and their feelings with what has happened. That made the
situation a lot more comfortable. Every time I was open about
my difficulties it made me feel a lot more relaxed. This has
made me more confident in letting other people understand my
difficulties, such as friends, other students and now the people
I have worked with.”
Carlos:
“After
my stroke I used to try to speak to my family a lot, but due
to the fact that I couldn’t speak, then I would be angry
with them. I would fight with them and shout at them. Really
I was blaming myself for being so stupid. Getting together with
Sam … having a session together meant we could explain
how we all … how each of us felt – me, my Mum, my
Dad, my sister and my girlfriend. So, I could see that I was
hurting them … the fact that I was angry with myself and
shouting at them hurt them. Talking about this helped my family
understand why I was like that. We could understand each other
more, even if it was still hard at times.”